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Hey there, your blog is an inspiration. I've just started my very own advice blog. Do you think you could let your followers know?
I only have 5 followers on this myself! haha but sure guys, this shows there is more than one of us looking out for you x |
come and talk to me,
i made this blog so you could come here, in a judgemental free environment, and ask for advice or get anything off your cheast
I’m seeing a lot of sad posts at the moment
it pains me to see you beautiful people so full of anxiety!
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Hi, I am in need of some advice. I have the opportunity to go to a world renowned university and get an unbelievable education,however it is very expensive (even with scholarships) and I would probably be putting myself and my parents in debt for a long time. I could also go to my local university, stay in my city and not have to worry about money, but I know the programs at my local one are pretty lacking in comparison... any insight?
there’s a few different ways you can look at this. most importantly, what do your parents think? do they actually have the capability to support your education if you were to go to the renowned university? If you work hard enough and get the qualifications, you might make the money that you spent studying back, from future work/careers, ect just keep in mind that this would be a heavy burden if you don’t fully succeed at and after uni. If you were to go to this expensive place, you’d have to be a hundred and ten percent sure you’re going to enjoy and get a lot out of this course. But as you probably already know, courses vary from university to university, there might be less a chance for you to ‘branch off’ if you go to your local uni, but if you push yourself as hard as you can and you’re extremely focused and determined, i guarantee in the end you’ll get yourself where you want to be, top university or not. -Steph x |
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hey, you can call me clare. i have 2 guys and i can't decide between them! J is really cute and whenever he's out he messages me and is always trying to get me to meet up with him or whatever. but on Facebook and stuff he never talks to me, i always have to talk to him first, i don't know if its only cos he wants to talk to me when he's more confident/drunk or out with the boys :( R is amazingly hot and always says I'm hot but I'm not sure if he actually likes me. he's a player. help! :( xx g
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half I am 17 and 3 years ago I was brutally raped and almost killed and I have therapy and all that kazam, but he wants to have sex which is understandable but I haven't told him and I'm so scared because I love him so much and I don't want him to leave me
you don’t have to tell him what happened to you, |
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Thanks for the advice, I couldn't really fit alot into the box. But I'll try to clarify real quick. She's made it very very clear that she does NOT like him, and thinks he's not good enough for her. And when she has convinced him to break up with once of his gf's for her, once he did, she told him she didn't want to date him anymore and went for another guy. So it's not that she wants to date him, she just wants the attention. But he's oblivious and cant understand that, lol
she might not want to date him, but to me it sounds like she’s obsessed with him, she needs a reality check and needs to be asked, kindly, to fuck off :) -Steph x |
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There’s girl who’s friends with my fiancee for a couple years-he used to like her. She told him she doesn’t like him, but when he's had a gf she always tries to break them up andtexts him in the middle of the night that she misses him and wants to go drinking and hook up (he never does) BUT as soon as he’s single again, she doesn’t talk to him, dates other guys, acts like he’s not good enough, tells her friends he’s too fat/ugly. They stopped talking when he met me, but now they started again...
she’s into him, but she doesn’t want to be. and you definitely need to talk to him about it and make sure he doesn’t have any feelings for her anymore. -Steph x |
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i kissed this guy and i thought we were still friends till i heard he called me a whore, but he denied it. anyway that was a week ago and he hasn't talked to me since which is weird cus we see each other everyday(although we've gone through periods of not talking before. i have no idea if we're still friends or not and idk how to find out without seeming weird?
well. This happened to me a few months ago. You need to talk to him, you can’t let him run away, if you have feelings for him, you need to peruse them. Talk to him, if it seems like he’s acting weird, or giving you short answers and not continuing the conversation, ask him what’s wrong. -Steph x |
